I read a post today by a fellow blogger who said she was considering giving up writing posts. She presented the dilemma that it seems many of us are faced with today. That being that if we express our feelings regarding what’s going on in our society , and those feelings don’t line up with popular opinion, that we can be ostracized, basically cast out from society.
I was pondering on how I would write this post on the drive to work this morning. That pondering went something like this:
Years ago, my daughter was awarded the Aloha Award at a luau she and I attended in Oahu for having the brightest ‘aloha spirit’ for the evening. This was at the end of the evening, after she had gone onstage with many others to ‘learn the hula’. The emcee went down the line speaking with each person and when he came to my daughter, he did a double-take and asked her question after silly question just to put her heavy Southern drawl out there for all to hear. We will be in Maui next month and my granddaughter is looking forward to her time on stage as well. Now, instead of their wonderful spirits being the highlight, I cringe to think of the silence that may ensue when they learn from where they reside – North Carolina.
So let me just put it out there and not hemhaw around the bush. I’m proud of reigning from North Carolina, now more so than ever. NOT because our state is leading a fight against the LGBT and transgender communities. That is propaganda that leads news stories. I just saw a story on GMA where a man was ranting through the aisles at a Target store telling them they would all be judged by God. Yeah, he will too.
I am terribly ashamed for those types of representations that North Carolina is receiving. But that is not what is fueling our governor and state lawmakers to pursue the upholding of the HB2 law. It is in no way a discrimination of the LGBT and transgenders. The opponents, and even now the federal government, have created that to be the issue.
The general public is unaware of the number of cases of sexual abuse commited against the children in this country. Local law enforcement agencies operate under a cloak of silence in order to protect those innocent victims.
But if you wonder whether or not this is true, let me challenge you. Ask someone who works in such an agency, and ask them quick. The general comment you will receive will either be yay or nay. If it’s no, thank God. If it’s yes, that this is true in your county, then stop and ask yourself if what the opponents of this law are saying is a scare tactic holds any truth whatsover. If even one child is put at risk, then how can we face ourselves to not support North Carolina in this pursuit?
The picture at the top of this post is a man named Ian Watkins – look him up. He claimed to actually procreate children so he’d have them to molest. I sicken myself even writing that. But these people are out there, people!
Governor Pat McCrory is doing what no one in the past has done before. In the face of any and all opposition, he is not backing down. He holds firm to protecting our children. It is not a protection from the LGBT and transgender community. This has nothing to do with them – and I cringe to say ‘them’ because that signifies an ‘Us vs Them’ mentality – this nothing other than the fact that people who identify themselves as such are raising the demands that they be noticed by using this platform. Which restroom have they been using prior to this debate? The one they identify with. Why pass a law allowing them to do what they’ve been doing all along? Why create this issue? If I have any discrimination whatsoever against them, it is that they are denying the safety of our children in order to be recognized. And that recognition is self-imposed. And ‘them’ includes ANYONE who puts our children in harms way – regardless of sex, gender, race, nationality, or any other facet of humanity.
This all started forty miles east of my home, in Charlotte. I don’t know the details of how and why it all started other than the city passed an ordinance that would allow anyone to use any restroom based on gender identity. Governor McCrory stepped in at once and the rest is becoming history. McCrory, I’m sure, has access to the records to back up his strong opposition.
Please do not discredit North Carolina as a whole by the rantings of misguided individuals who put themselves in the judgment seat. I can still see the wagging finger of my grandmother as she pointed to her Bible and said “love the sinner, hate the sin.” And who is the sinner? I am. You are. Your children are. Your parents are. Each and every person on either side of this problem is a sinner. To me, it doesn’t matter who you are – I believe the Bible. And the Bible says ALL are sinners and only by the grace of God are we saved. No one can pass judgment but God. We each answer for our own selves. And I don’t want to have to answer for bigotry, hatred, violence. But neither do I want to answer for playing a part in the misguided failure to protect our children in any way possible from this sickened world we live in.
May God bless Governor McCrory as he fights this battle for not only North Carolina but the United States. May God bless ALL of our lawmakers. May God bless each of us who see ‘them’ as being any different than ‘us’ – we are all His children – whether we acknowledge that or not. May God bless each and every one of you reading this. And may God bless and protect our precious children.